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  • April 16th, 2007

    Is Your Son Safe at College?

    by Marc H. Rudov

    Gynoversity

    If your son attends a co-ed college or university in the United States, and he is actively heterosexual, it is likely that a female student will falsely accuse him of rape. Does your son have any clue how to avoid such a nightmare, or that such a nightmare is even possible?

    Unless you’ve been hiding under a rock for the past 13 months, and didn’t hear about the fraudulent rape case at Duke University, you should be painfully aware of the danger your son faces. Because our society doesn’t value males, your son’s university will not protect him if he should, unfortunately, become the object of a female’s ire. In fact, his school will kick him under the bus. You should worry about that.

    America’s institutes of higher learning are bastions of socialism and misandrist feminism. Go to the Website of your son’s university. Do a search on “rape.” Pages and pages of information, right? Lots of help and programs for female students. Now, do a search on “false rape accusations.” What do you find? Nothing, I’ll bet. That’s because he attends a gynoversity.

    Does your son’s educational establishment care about his welfare? Not at all. Men and boys are expendable, built for sacrifice. Your son’s school cares about girls and date-rape, not about boys being falsely accused of rape. Also, your son’s school has a zero-tolerance policy, which states that HER side of the rape story is the whole story. And, your son’s school allows girls to have consensual sex with him and then, up to two weeks later, decide that their consensual sex was rape. After all, women are allowed to change their minds.

    And, by the way, when a girl admits to lying about her rape accusation, or if the evidence ultimately shows her to be a liar, what will be her punishment? Nothing. Slap on the wrist, maybe. Campus police and prosecutors will do nothing to her. She gets a pass. Starting to worry, now?

    To reflect my concern about this nonsense, I have contacted athletic directors, football coaches, VPs of student affairs, presidents, and high-level directors of fraternity organizations at major universities around the USA. Responses? Zero. These execs are hiding under their desks — afraid of feminism, afraid of the misandrist media.

    On 60 Minutes last night, Leslie Stahl interviewed the three Duke lacrosse players just exonerated of felonious rape charges, as well as North Carolina Attorney General Roy Cooper, the man who freed them. They all spoke eloquently and humbly. The most chilling part of the segment, however, was when Ms. Stahl showed a clip of women marching in the streets of Durham, at the case’s genesis, banging pots and screaming for the castration of the accused boys. No evidence. No facts. Only presumed guilt, desired guilt, and blind hunger for male destruction. I guess they were showing their nurturing sides.

    A Convenient Lie

    Why do girls and women feloniously accuse boys and men of rape? There are two levels of rationale. First, the legal climate permits and encourages it. The rape-shield laws, which hide the identities of rape accusers, are a joke. You’ll hear women justifying them by bemoaning the embarrassment of reporting rapes. Really? Where are they to express empathy for men humiliated on TV and cyberspace after being falsely accused of rape? You can fit them into the proverbial phone booth.

    Second, the typical girl is raised not to take responsibility for her actions but to blame them on someone else. Accordingly, there are five common reasons she will make felonious rape accusations:

    1. Shame: When she gets drunk or stoned, or both, and fornicates with a guy she’d prefer not to be with, she awakens the next day feeling ashamed. Instead of blaming herself, learning a lesson, and moving forward with her life, she conveniently accuses the man of rape.
    2. Goading: Her misandrist girlfriends hear her sordid story and browbeat her into accusing the guy of rape. Or, one of them makes the call to the campus police. Why not?
    3. Revenge: She becomes enraged when, after the tryst, he never calls her. So, to avenge his “faux pas,” she accuses him of rape.
    4. Parental Alibi: She needs to explain to her parents why she is pregnant. So, by accusing her partner of rape, she’s off the hook for her promiscuity.
    5. Boyfriend/Husband Alibi: She cheats on her boyfriend or husband. To explain her whereabouts, and/or the misplaced aroma of men’s cologne, she accuses her partner of rape.

    The NoNonsense Bottom Line

    Here’s what probably will happen when a co-ed accuses your son of rape. First, he will be presumed guilty and arrested. Second, the university will automatically suspend him from school, pending an investigation of indeterminate length. Third, if he is an athlete, his name and face will grace every TV, computer, and video-enabled cellphone in the world — it can happen in the blink of an eye. Meanwhile, the school will protect the accuser with a big rape shield.

    To help make your son safe at college, have him memorize these seven rules of survival:

    1. Women have the majority of civil, reproductive, marital, divorce, child-custody, and child-support rights in America
    2. Never go out or have sex with a vindictive girl who blames everyone else for her problems
    3. Never have unprotected sex
    4. Never have sex with a girl whom you don’t trust implicitly
    5. Never have sex with a girl whose girlfriends you don’t trust
    6. Never have sex with a girl who is under the influence of alcohol or drugs
    7. Never have sex with a girl if you are under the influence of alcohol or drugs.

    Yes, by following these rules, your son’s social life will be a bit curtailed but better than the alternative. The three Duke lacrosse players were presumed, and not proven, guilty. They had to prove their innocence — an anti-constitutional requirement — and, as a result, have legal bills estimated at $1 million each. Do you have that kind of money to save your son? If so, are you sure he can prevail in his state? In these matters, an ounce of prevention is worth a ton of cure.

    About the Author

    Marc H. Rudov is an internationally recognized author of 45+ articles and the books Under the Clitoral Hood: How to Crank Her Engine Without Cash, Booze, or Jumper Cables (ISBN 9780974501727), and The Man’s No-Nonsense Guide to Women: How to Succeed in Romance on Planet Earth (ISBN 0974501719).

    Rudov’s books, articles, blog, and podcasts are available at TheNoNonsenseMan.com.

    Copyright © 2007 by Marc H. Rudov. All rights reserved.


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