Females as Sexual Predators
by Marc H. RudovWe are experiencing a new phenomenon in our country: the female as sexual predator. In the past few years, we’ve seen news accounts of female teachers having sex with with adolescent boys, a disorder called hebophilia. Maybe adult women have been doing this, on the sly, for decades, but only now is it a part of the “public” discourse (see article). But, this can’t happen: women are supposed to be nurturing and responsible.
What’s more amazing than the news is the debate about whether these women should be punished as harshly as male adults committing the same crimes. Moreover, TV commentators seem to be shocked that beautiful women can be so dysfunctional, desperate, and depraved. Imagine that!
Our socialization tells us that a 15-year-old boy having sex with his 27-year-old, hot-blonde teacher is experiencing a rite of passage, whereas a 15-year-old girl having sex with her 27-year-old male teacher would be experiencing rape and molestation. Why the disparity? Why the double standard?
I can think of three bogus reasons for society’s double standard: 1) boys are supposed to have sex, 2) boys are tough and not hurtable, and 3) boys can’t get pregnant. What a bunch of nonsense. No, a 15-year-old boy cannot get pregnant, but he can get his 27-year-old teacher pregnant. Would that not ruin his life and that of his unsuspecting family. Yes. If a grown woman treats a 15-year-old boy as a sex toy and then discards him, would that not scar him emotionally for life? Yes. Are 15-year-old boys better able to cope with the emotions of sex than girls? No. So, once again, we find that our socialization is nonsense.
One more double standard from LA-LA Land: while we see more female teachers being thrown into jail for molesting teenage boys, Hollywood excuses and glamorizes such behavior. In the 2004 movie, Birth, Nicole Kidman had a sexual relationship with a 10-year-old boy she thought was her reincarnated husband. Of course, that was considered ” beautiful art.” Folks, wrong is wrong is wrong.
The more we realize that men and women are the same, the more we want to fight this reality. Stop fighting it. Deal with it.
Marc H. Rudov
Author/Publisher
The Man’s No-Nonsense Guide to Women
(ISBN 0974501719)
February 23rd, 2005 at 3:31 am
http://dictionary.reference.com/search?q=hebophilia
No entry found for hebophilia.
February 28th, 2005 at 2:06 pm
This has happened in 27 instances in the last 15 months. So much for the Bovine Excrement that Women are the “More Moral” Gender. And yes there is a damned double standard. While Male Adolescents may get some points from their Peer Group for scoring with an
“Experienced Woman”, getting her Pregnant and being stuck with child support for 18 years is not funny. It is an abuse of power and betrayl of innocence. There is a major difference in maturity between 18 and 13 years of age.
October 28th, 2005 at 4:41 pm
I couldnt agree more, my brother was 14 when he was seduced by a woman of 31. This woman managed to get pregnant 3 times before finally having a baby boy after 2 niscarriages with my brother, by the time he was 16. She even harboured him for 3 weeks whilst he was 15, after he ran away from the family home. He then married this fruitloop and had 2 more girls with her. He finally left heft her when he was 30. But she has basically robbed him of his youth and filled it with the drudgery of her own miserable existence. and yes the child support doesnt end, so she still has her sticky claws in him
December 3rd, 2005 at 6:55 am
Umm, a man is larger and sexually dominating over a woman. He can physically hold her down, wheras a woman is often the same size as her teenage “victim”. Honestly, teenagers are more sexual than you realize.