Can Men and Women Really Get Along?
by Marc H. RudovPlease read my latest article, “Can Men and Women Really Get Along?”, based on the thousands of keyword searches people insert into Google that bring them to my Website. The feelings and fears men and women have about each other will astound you: loneliness, fear of infidelity, sexual desire, etc. Men and women have the same feelings and fears!
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Marc H. Rudov
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The Man’s No-Nonsense Guide to Women
(ISBN 0974501719)
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November 22nd, 2004 at 12:00 pm
The post below confirms what I wrote in my article, “Can Men and Women Really Get Along?” — that there is so much male/female distrust that guys and girls spend more time dancing around each other than with each other.
Please read it and then make your own comments.
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I have read your article…CAN MEN AND WOMEN GET ALONG??
I would say I get along with the majority of the ones I know, or at least get to know me, for the most part. But, I have always had issues with meeting new, strange, girls. I am decently attractive and I have had some very hot girlfriends in the past, but talking to new ones that I am not mutually introduced to seems to be difficult for me. I actually think it is the girls problem, they need to listen to their instincts better. (Since they do in all other ways) If they did then they would realize that I am a nice guy, and as EVERYONE, looking for sex, but as well as a possible relationship on any different level. You never know if things will work out, or I should say HOW, so like I always say; with nothing to loose by trying and a great deal to gain if successful, then by ALL means TRY.
I bring this up because last nite I actually DID get a number from a “stranger” she was working at the bar I was visiting and I noticed here from the moment I got there. I was sure I would make some sort of conversation with her, or else as usual kick my self for not at least “trying”, so I did…”You are a peice of work” I said. “What do you mean” she replied…
“You have BEAUTIFUL eyes, and smile” “And your legs are INCREDIBLE” (they truly were amazing, that was my biggest attraction to her) “You are built like a motorcycle” I explained. Hopefully that makes sense, It does to me…
Later in the evening my compadre and I were getting ready to leave, this waitress, we will call Mellissa, was offering shots. She stopped us and suggested “2 for 1″ (shots that is…) so my buddy suggested (knowing I was hot for her) we will get the shots but only if you give your phone number to my buddy, (ME). Well, she delighfully agreed and we made good conversation about that and made tentitive plans for the upcoming weeks. And how long is it you are “supossed” to wait to call a “chick” these days. My rule is, as soon as you feel the need. If I don’t have anything planned THAT weekend, then why not then. Otherwise, for me, the “momentum” runs out and I won’t call at all. It’s like , oh ok, NOW i have time and interest to call you. Nah, 3 days MAX.!!!
The other issue I have is why some girls are more than happy to talk while others get into this weird, alien, “ALL guys are DICKS” attitude” mostly I see this happen when they are drunk. I have seen females turn into MAJOR bitches like they don’t even make sense and there is NOTHING a guy can do to comfort them and try to make them to continue to have a good time. I experienced this also last nite, I was leaving and walking past a decently looking female and said something to the effect of “have a good nite” and she gave me the finger, the bird, the “GO FUCK YOURSELF”
Whatever, I got a HOT chicks number!!!!!!!
I really think guys shoud just walk up to the girl they are attractred to and say ” hey wanna go home and screw?”
This is really what we mean when we buy a drink, or want to take them out, etc… So why beat around the bush…, literally!! I think sex should be first, and if its good THEN its worth working on a meaningful relationship. What if you spend time, money and effort than finally have sex and it’s terrible, then whatyado?
I am sure if a girl walked up to a guy and said “lets go home and schtoop (screw)” we would be ALL over that.
I think that is all I have for now, but I am sure I will return!
Peace and Humptyvision ; )
BF
A Ron
December 17th, 2004 at 10:54 pm
Ok A Ron, here are my two cents:
If a guy comes up to me and he is pretty decent looking, I will gladly engage in conversation. If the conversation goes well (I’m talking half-way intelligent), then he gets my number. Now, that doesn’t mean I won’t just take some hottie home and teach him the ways of MY world! I’m not always out to look for a freakin’ relationship. I don’t have time for that. I do want to have a good time and maybe even NOT get a phone call the next day. BUT, if I give my number out, he better call within a day or two. That’s just how girls are. Guys use girls. I use guys. I love sex with strangers. Most of them I wouldn’t want to hear from again. But those are the ones who don’t get my number. My phone number comes (cums?) LAST, at the end of the evening. Prove your worthiness because I’m a great fucking catch. Besides a kick-ass time, you’ll get my digits. If not, at least we both enjoyed each other and that’s just another chapter in my book. MOST GIRLS, though, are NOT like me. They want a boyfriend. Whine whine whine. I hate chicks like that. Desperation won’t get you one, honey! Girls need to act more like guys, play it cool, have a good time, and not worry so much about getting hitched. I’ve been around the block many times…even got married once. I love the way things are now. Single. Happy. Boytoys. No hassles!!!! What could be better?